Mr. Sunshine Smiles

Well, hey there folks and happy Monday!

I hope everyone was able to enjoy some of Mother Nature’s wrath this past weekend–no matter what type of wrath it was. For me personally, I got to enjoy the snow, sleet, and freezing rain…literally every single type of precipitation.

For those who didn’t already know (although I think most of you already do), I started my official hiatus from social media as of January 15th. And while the first couple of days have been a bit of a struggle, I have to admit…it’s been pretty great.

I’ve been able to take the first couple of days to focus on other things in life such as reading on the daily, writing in my journal before bed, being in bed before midnight, and planning out how to achieve some of my biggest goals and challenges for 2020.

Being off social media also forces both me and others to intentionally reach out to one other, which is something I hope to become better with as the year progresses.

I just can’t stress how much positive energy I’m already feeling and it hasn’t even been a week!

This is only the beginning of the 6 month (or more depending on how much I enjoy it) hiatus, so come at me world! WOO!

Anyhoo…let’s get down to the nitty gritty. Are you ready?!

CLEANSING.

With the Winter weather that decided to show its ugly face in Lancaster this weekend, I thought it would be the perfect moment to begin my 2020 casa purge/cleanse.

And, after just a mere 2 hours of cleaning/purging in my bedroom, I found two completely full trash bags by the front door…and I’m not even halfway done!

Please see Exhibit A for official photo evidence…and don’t judge me.

…Well judge me if you want. I don’t care.

And I’m not even close to being done with the bedroom…

…and this is just the first of 6 rooms (including the basement)!

SAY WHAT?!

I’m feeling pretty great about organizing my life finally and getting rid of items that no longer bring joy to me…and to just be a minimalist!

A MINIMALIST!

I can’t wait to continue sharing with you all the progress over the coming weeks!

Well, folks. That’s about all I have for you this week.

But, before I close out this post…I have just a few final things to share.

-Frozen Jr. opens this Thursday at the Ephrata Performing Arts Center. As the Music Director of this production, I couldn’t be more proud of all the kids and their hard work! They fill my heart with such joy and energy! You definitely do not want to miss out on this one, so please hurry to ephrataperformingartscenter.com and get tickets because they are going fast!

-One of the Mr. Sunshine surprises that I have up my sleeve for this year is officially in the works! If all goes well, I’m hoping to have the official reveal for this in a future blog post ideally in April. That means…stay tuned!

-Also, if you need a church family that is welcoming and loving, please visit St. Paul Lutheran in Penryn! We worship at 9:15am on Sunday mornings and would love to have you! We accept all and welcome all no matter what your past, present, or future. We would love to see you there, so make the step to walk through our doors and know you are loved.

And one final thought before I leave you until next week.

I’ve been reading Hoda Kotb’s I Really Needed This Today and the quote from yesterday, Sunday, January 19th really struck me, especially with my hiatus from social media. I encourage you to really think about this quote as you live on your daily life over the next week.

“One of the best feelings in the world is knowing your presence and absence both mean something to someone.”

Sprinkle sunshine always,

JP!

 

Well, hello there folks!

It’s my first official blog post of 2020, so hope you are excited for another year of sunshine and smiles!

I hope everyone was able to enjoy their New Year with family and friends whilst eating all those left over Christmas cookies, candies, and other treats that we are always forced to consume between December 25th and January 1st when we all seem to decide that “healthy eating” is the way to go.

I don’t know about you; however, I feel like I need several weeks to officially slide into the New Year. It always seems to just creep up on us and no matter how much I think I am ready, I’m just never fully prepared for it.

I still feel like I’m trying to get my life organized…along with my Christmas presents.

Anyone else? Am I in the minority on this?

One positive side note from the first 12 days of the year is that I got a new 2020 planner bought and organized…color coded and all! See below for visual evidence.

For those who know me, my planner is literally like my Bible. I would be lost without it. Call me old fashioned and crazy, but there is just something about having a planner full of events to carry around.

This week, I begin one of my 2020 goals–what will probably be one of the most challenging ones–deactivating social media for 6 months.

This is definitely going to be a hard challenge for me; however, it is one that I’m super excited to delve into.

I’m a jealous person. Insert shocked emoji face. I become jealous and waste time comparing myself when I scroll through the aspects of social media.

And frankly, I’m sick of it and have a million better things to do with my time. If you need a reminder, here are some of the aspects of my life that I plan to work on during my hiatus. Also, side note: I will still be blogging on a weekly basis, so that isn’t changing!

-Reach ideal weight
-Get a tattoo
-Read at least 10 books (any titles you might have are welcome)
-Organize and purge every and all rooms in my house along with all my “stuff”
-Make family night more regular
-Get to bed by midnight
-Do push-ups and squats every morning and evening
-Try vegan dieting for 30 days
-Journal everyday
-Color more regularly
-Work on tithing and contributing to the church
-Save at least $3,000 in my savings account
-Do meal prepping
-Work on talking to co-workers more regularly
-Take a regular lunch

Well, there you have it folks. What the days and nights of Mr. Sunshine will be filled with for the next 6 months.

Will it be challenging?

Yes.

Will it give me a new perspective?

Yes.

Am I excited?

Yes.

If there’s one thing that I can say about myself, it is this.

I’m as real as they come. What you see is what you get. There is no fine print with me. No bull poo Mr. Sunshine.

I’m someone who has always put the needs of others first and focused on kindness and love for all. And I will continue to do that while I’ll take my social media break, but it will also be a time for me to take some time for myself.

To take time for focusing on resting the rays of sunshine for a bit.

But don’t worry. When I come back in August, I’ll be ready to change the world again, so get ready. Because I’ll have some exciting stuff up my sleeve…well…hopefully, if all works out.

I hope you will continue to follow me on my journey, especially as I work through self reflection, self discovery, and self care in this next 6 months.

In my absence, I ask you to continue spreading love and kindness to everyone you meet. Smile at the stranger. Hug a friend. Be appreciative. Be a light for someone in the world around you.

We need it.

And another side note…

This below song is my current jam and will be my jam as I work on myself. I find the lyrics motivating and encouraging.

Sprinkle sunshine always,

JP!

Well, everyone. He we are. Another year almost over. Isn’t it crazy to think how fast the time has gone?! Like, seriously.

I hope you and your families were able to enjoy whatever holiday you celebrate and got to have moments of fun, laughter, food, joy, and happiness…

…And mashed potatoes. Gotta love those mashed potatoes.

ANYHOO…

As someone who is very against doing the “Top 9” on Instagram, I decided it would be fun to make my last blog post of 2019 one of reminiscing with some of my favorite moments from the past twelve months.

So, grab your coffee, tea, or whatever beverage you might enjoy while reading some entertaining words, and join me on a stroll down memory lane of this past year.

These, are of course in no particular order.

Kicking off my 1K For 10K Campaign on January 2nd. 

It’s hard to believe that this was something I started almost 365 days ago. It feels like just yesterday that I was brainstorming this campaign and getting my friend, Drew to help me with creating a website. But alas, my dream came true and what a dream it was. I never thought it would be so difficult to hit 1000 miles; however, it was much more of a challenge than I anticipated. But it is one that I’m ever so thankful for taking on.

Hitting the initial $10,000 goal at the end of July. 

This is something that I still don’t believe that I’m writing about. Hitting the initial goal in my running campaign at the end of the seventh month was something I never thought would happen. The amount of support, love, and donations that I received from numerous individuals (much like you reading this right now) was insane and I will never be able to repay the generosity that was shown by all. I’m incredibly blessed, thankful, and humble for everyone who joined me on this journey and I can’t wait to reveal next week how much money has been raised for the Four Diamonds Fund and pediatric cancer research, so stay tuned!

Becoming CFSP certified. 

This was a goal that I wrote down in my old school planner at the beginning of the year and it feels SO good to be able to cross it off my list. Ever since high school, I have been a terrible test taker, so going into this made me nervous because of…well…you know…taking a test. But it happened and I passed! What a huge weight lifted off my shoulders getting that passing score notification the minute after submitting the test. WOO! Now, I can use this knowledge to help both my colleagues and customers as I continue to grow in my career at WebstaurantStore over the course of the coming years.

Becoming an uncle. 

After my brother and sister-in-law had some trouble conceiving in past years and many prayers, it happened! And what a beautiful blessing it was! It has been quite an exciting time getting to watch Mackenzie grow in the past couple of months and I look forward to the years to come as she continues to grace us with her million dollar smile and blue eyes…and crazy hair!

Meeting my favorite Instagram celebrity, James Oblak 

I was over the moon when I had the opportunity to not only see James in Mamma Mia at the Fulton this Summer (4 times might I add), but also meet him in person AND get a chance to take our Carrie legs for a run around Lancaster on July 4th. He is such a handsome hunk and sweetheart. I can only hope that he comes back to the Fulton for more shows in the future because I will be front row and center cheering him on!

Running my 1000th mile.

This just happened yesterday! Ahhh! So crazy! Literally a year of running and finally hitting the 1000th mile…in weather that was worthy of the Spring. Go figure. My legs are READY for a break. Don’t forget…January 6th. I will reveal the total amount of money raised. GET EXCITED for the BIG REVEAL!

Traveling to Jackson Hole. 

Anyone who knows me knows that I’m not a traveler, so getting on a plane and basically going to the other side of the United States was a big deal for me! But with the help of Ashlea and Bailey, we made it through and what a beautiful trip it was! While we might have missed the wedding of our dear friend, Johannah due to flight issues (it seemed like everything went wrong, but we got a kick out of it), we were able to enjoy the reception and celebrate the happy couple. Jackson Hole Round 2 might be something I would consider in the future, but only if I take a Xanax for those plane rides. BYEEEEE.

Annual family beach trip to North Wildwood. 

Family vacation is always something that I look forward to and this year was no different. Getting the opportunity to remove myself from the work life and Lancaster for a week is always a much-needed respite that I enjoy thoroughly. And those extra rays of sunshine that I get to catch during that time period is an added plus too!

Renovating Sunshine Cottage.

It was a big year for Sunshine Cottage with some cosmetic facelifts. I know that I made a blog post about this many moons ago and never really posted any after pictures, so here are just a few to enjoy. A HUGE thank you to Aaron and Campbell Cubs Construction for making this happen and doing it so incredibly well. Aaron is a master of his craft. I’m already putting together some plans for a few minor renovations in the new year.

St. Paul Penryn becoming an RIC congregation. 

While this only happened about a month ago on December 8th, it is still one that gets me filled with such raw emotion. This was such a HUGE step for our congregation and hopefully one for other congregations in the surrounding area to follow. Being the first Lutheran Church in Lancaster County to make this public affirmation of being all-inclusive is…how should I say this…kind of a big deal. And while I know that church is not for everyone, I would encourage all of you to come check out our small (yet mighty) and loving congregation in the town of Penryn some Sunday for worship. You’ll be glad you did. We welcome ALL.

Well, there you have it.

Of course, amongst these entities that I have listed above, there were so many other moments between friends and family that will get cherished in a special spot of my heart for years to come.

2019 has been a great year. It has been one that challenged me and allowed me to discover new things about myself that I didn’t know before. It helped me to grow personally, physically, and emotionally.

But there is still room for growth and while I close out this year with many beautiful moments of sunshine, I look to 2020 with a new energy that involves taking time away from social media and focusing on me.

So, cheers to a new year and cheers to all the love, support and kindness that has been shown this year and all that is yet to come.

Sprinkle sunshine always,

JP!

Christmas Eve is literally tomorrow.

TOMORROW.

As in like Tuesday…the day that comes after today, which is Monday.

It’s a sentence that I’ve been saying for like weeks, but it is now finally holding true.

HOLY WREATHS OF HOLLY AND MISTLETOE.

A traditional Christmas Eve service complete with candlelight, the Christmas story, and the singing of my favorite hymns has always been a tradition that I’ve enjoyed immensely since as long as I can remember.

There is just something about the service that gets me right in the heart and fills my soul with an emotion of feeling unlike anything else in this world.

I’m telling you…there is nothing quite like singing the words to Silent Night while witnessing a church full of candlelight, in the dark, and the voices sing out the lyrics of the beloved hymn.

Goosebumps.

And for those of who know me, I start planning the Christmas Eve service early in the year…like Valentine’s Day.

Real talk.

Christmas Eve in Penryn is no joke.

And this year is going to be even more special and meaningful because of the vote our congregation took back on December 8th to become a Reconciling in Christ church.

The first Lutheran Church in Lancaster County to do so.

This Christmas Eve night will be even more special than the ones in year’s past and I’m excited for the opportunity to share that experience with everyone who decides to walk through the doors of our little church that night.

The lyrics that we will sing to our favorite Christmas hymns are going to have even more meaning for me this year.

The candles we will light together will be even more symbolic.

We will be the light.

Together.

We will be the light for this world and anyone feeling darkness in their lives.

Together.

So, please join our church family tomorrow at 6:30pm for our Christmas Eve service.

It is a tradition that welcomes ALL people regardless of their social status, physical ability, religion, ethnicity, race, or sexual identity.

Together, we will discover the light of Christmas.

I hope to see you there.

All. Are. Welcome.

Sprinkle sunshine always,

JP!

The wind is howling it’s brisk, chilly air among the neighborhood homes as the scarf around my neck whisps up into my face and hits my cheeks that are red like cherries.

The steps my feet are taking on the cracked sidewalks start to become faster strides in hopes of getting my body to the warmth of my home.

There are leaves collected on the small patch of grass outside my front door, evident of the time that I do not put into lawn care.

I walk up the steps quickly to unlock the front door that greets visitors and passer-bys with a decadence of forest green color.

I quickly unlock the door against the violent wind and swiftly step inside and shut the door behind me.

The living room greets me with dust on the floor, boxes and boxes of Christmas gifts yet to be organized and wrapped in the corner, and several picture frames that have probably been laying on the ground for more than half a year.

And, if that isn’t bad enough, after traveling up the staircase of creaky steaps, you will find several rooms filled with “stuff”–clutter. This of course includes, but is not limited to a collection of CD’s from my childhood, coloring books, markers, crayons, books, picture frames, and both closets and drawers filled to the brim with clothes–some of which I don’t even wear anymore.

Or, from the back room of the house you can look out the window to the backyard that is once again evidence of all the time that I do not put into lawn care beauty and organization.

Each time I walk into one of these rooms or look outside at the nature elements of my home, my anxiety starts to rise just a bit as the minimalist part of my personality starts to scream a little.

And, then I realize that 2020 is right around the corner and that it will be a true year of renewal for me.

The walls and roof that enclose my casa are not perfect, but they do keep me warm and safe.

My life is not perfect. I don’t try to act like it is nor do I try to pretend that it is.

It isn’t.

Period.

In 30 days, I will be saying goodbye to the Mr. Sunshine social media persona for a little bit of time. While I’m not certain how long of a period I will be gone from the worlds of Facebook and Instagram, I know in my heart that it is something I need to do in order to better myself and push forward in personal growth.

I will continue to blog and release new posts on Monday, so those of you that follow me will hopefully continue to do so as I embark on this journey of self-management and improvement.

Is this goodbye? I don’t know.

What I do know is that I need to take time where I put myself first for once, which is something that I have rarely done in my 32 years on this Earth.

2020 will be the year that changes that.

T minus 20 days until Mr. Sunshine goes into the sunset.

Sprinkle sunshine always,

JP!

 

 

 

 

December 8, 2019 will be a day that will go down in the history books for the congregation of St. Paul Evangelical Lutheran Church in Penryn, PA.

While I know that church and religion is not everyone’s thing this day in age, I sincerely hope that you will continue to read this post because I’m incredibly excited to share what made yesterday such a monumental moment.

I’ve been a member of St. Paul Evangelical Lutheran Church in Penryn since 1995…which is crazy. That is 24 years. It is quite amazing how quick the time flies.

I’m pretty sure that I’ve been the Music Director since 2009; however, don’t quote me on that because I’m not very good with dates. I might need my Mama Welliver to officially fact check that for me!

Even in the 24 years I’ve been a member, I’ve seen the church go through a lot of change–mostly different Pastors and leaders that caused some difficulty for stability and growth.

And through these changes, there were even discussions of closing our doors–something that had every member of the congregation feeling emotional.

Then, in September of 2017, we had the opportunity to be the guinea pig congregation for something new that the Synod was “trial and erroring” and were paired up with a seminary student, Angie Hammer.

It was our saving grace–the answer to our prayers. The stability that we had been looking for to help with our growth and showing others in the community that we are here and ready to share our God given talents with everyone. And as we move forward in our convenant agreement with Angie that will occur over the next 3 years, the excitement inside my soul only grows.

Angie has challenged us to look inside ourselves and to really think about how we can each use our talents to encourage growth, love, and kindness within our church family and all people that visit to share in our worship experience.

And amongst all that has been happening in these past two years with Angie, one of the conversations that our congregation started to explore was something that we call “Reconciling in Christ.”

The Reconciling in Christ (RIC) Program is for congregations, synods, colleges, seminaries, and other Lutheran organizations and ministry communities who have made a public commitment to welcome, include an celebrate people of all walks of live regardless of sexuality orientation and identity, mental ability, social status, religion, or ethnicity.

Today, December 8, 2019, our faithful church in the small town of Penryn was moved by the Holy Spirit and did something amazing.

The following is the public declaration that we made as the faith community of St. Paul:

“As a Reconciled in Christ Congregation, Saint Paul Lutheran Church, Penryn, welcomes ALL God’s people, embracing differences of age, race, ethnicity, physical or mental abilities, marital status, sexual orientation, gender identity, or economic status. We recognize that we are all children of God, whose differences are Reconciled in Christ.”

While this may sound like a simple sentence, it is so much more than that. It is something that makes me so emotional inside with unwavering faith and joy.

As the congregation prepared their ballots for voting, I sat in the front pew with baited breath waiting for the results and praying that this congregation would be prepared to move forward.

And when Glenn walked to the microphone to announce that 92% had voted in favor of becoming a Reconciling in Christ church, I cried. I sat there in the front pew and cried like a baby. There were lots of tears shed and hugs. I’ve never seen Vicar Angie cry…but today I witnessed those tears.

We are welcoming to ALL.

We are welcoming to ALL regardless of what they are going through in their lives.

We are welcoming to ALL regardless of the darkness that they may be experiencing in their lives.

We, at St. Paul Evangelical Lutheran Church in Penryn, are welcoming to ALL.

As you read this, I realize that it might not seem like a lot to you; however, it is a HUGE monumental moment for our church and the community around us.

There are no ELCA Lutheran churches in Lancaster County that are Reconciling in Christ. The closest one is Middletown.

So, here’s to new possibilities and a future full of love, kindness, and open arms to everyone.

If you are someone or know someone who is struggling and is looking for a church home to worship freely and feel the spirit and be welcome with open arms, come to St. Paul, Penryn.

ALL. ARE. WELCOME.

Sprinkle sunshine always,

JP!

 

 

Happy Monday, all!

I hope that everyone was able to have an enjoyable Thanksgiving holiday with both family and friends and that the cravings of cranberry sauce, pumpkin pie, turkey, and mashed potatoes were satisfied to the max.

I don’t know about you; however, it is quite near impossible for me to believe that it is the second day of the last month of 2019!

Like seriously, though. Where in the name of Mike has the time gone this year?!

It is absolutely insane to think that we will be celebrating one of the biggest holidays in just a few weeks and shortly after that welcoming in 2020.

And speaking of the new year, that brings me to this week’s post.

The new year always brings about the entity that we call “resolutions.” It always seems to be the standard when we begin “anew” and try to welcome in a brand new year with the idea of wanting to improve both ourselves and our lives.

In fact, when you Google the term “New Year’s Resolution” (or at least when I Googled it tonight), I got the below definition:

-A person who vows to change an undesired trait or behavior, to accomplish a personal goal or otherwise improve their life.

And this year, I’m getting all my ducks in a row with my resolutions way before 2020 shows its face.

Want the full debrief? Well, read on!

Here are just a few of my personal 2020 resolutions that will help to re-discover Mr. Sunshine!

1. De-activate social media–This is one that I’ve been wanting to do for quite some time; however, I’ve never fully followed through with it. This will occur shortly after the beginning of the year for at least a 3-6 month period. I often find this form of media distracting to me along with being a breeding ground for feelings of jealousy and quite frankly, I don’t need that crap surrounding me and in order to move on and learn more about myself, I need to get rid of the distraction. I’ll be back at some point in 2020…just not sure when.

2. Hit desired weight–The removal of social media from my life will help me to really focus on this goal for myself. Fitness is something that has become a staple and passion of mine for the past couple of years and 2020 will be the year to finally hit my desired weight with my fitness goal. So, when I return to social media, you might not even recognize Mr. Sunshine. Say what?!

3. Try a vegan diet for at least 30 days–This is definitely something that will prove to be a challenge for me, especially because I’m a huge fan of every food that is bad for me. A huge thank you to my friend, Taylor who has given me a full guide on brands and items that I can find in local grocery stores to assist with this personal challenge for myself.

4. Work on tithing–Personally, this is not something that I’ve ever been good at, so 2020 is the year to finally hold myself accountable.

5. Organize the entire house and minimalize–It’s time for me to officially Marie Kondo my entire house…room by room…inch by inch. Quite the task and while I’m sure it will take several months, I’m excited for the potential positive energy that will result from finally making it happen.

6. Get a tatoo–Ever since turning 32, this was something that I’ve had on my mind. As I work to re-discover Mr. Sunshine and really define my core values and passions, a symbol of what that means for me is something that I would like to get on my body. Suggestions of where to get this accomplished once I make that decision are certainly welcome!

7. Mr. Sunshine surprise #1–You didn’t think I would leave you hanging without a surprise reveal in the new year did you?! The first one will come shortly after the year (as long as everything works out with it), so stay tuned and keep an eye out for more details!

8. Mr. Sunshine surprise #2–That’s right…not one, but two! While details of this one are also still in the making, it is something that my heart is incredibly excited and while thinking about how to change the world in 2020, it was something that just fell into my lap. So, that also means stay tuned for more details!

Well, there you have it.

The 2020 year for Mr. Sunshine in a nutshell.

Well a couple of nutshells.

A year of excitement, mystery, re-discovering, re-imagining, evolving, and surprises!

2019 has been an incredible year…but it’s time for me to refocus on myself for a bit of time before I work to continue on changing the world just a wee little bit at a time.

So, stay alert and on guard because the re-discovery of Mr. Sunshine takes full swing in just a few, short weeks!

Sprinkle sunshine always,

JP!